My baby daddy (my oldest daughter dad) is testing me over a one day difference on keeping her. But…

My baby daddy (my oldest daughter dad) is testing me over a one day difference on keeping her. But he ask me if he could get her early at times for his days. But I have a situation this week where I MAY need him to keep her one day extra he goes to pieces. Saying he don't like pop up changes. Smh told him remember that when you want her early than the what we agreed. Then he changed his tune talking alittle crazy still not going to respond to his last text not in the best of moods right now plus don't want hubby to get all upset bc I'm upset over my baby daddy.