This is difficult for me...I talked to hubby about him treating me unfairly, like I'm a child, and is being controlling.…

This is difficult for me...I talked to hubby about him treating me unfairly, like I'm a child, and is being controlling. We argued and in the end all he could interpret is if he wants something to eat/drink he has to do it himself because asking me or having me go do it for him, is controlling. He twisted my words. Me making dinner and serving it and cleaning the house means I'm a good housewife, it doesn't mean he is controlling me. He literally is being stupid. All I was wanting was for him to stop acting like I need his permission to do stuff is all. Then later after we cooled down I apologized for starting the topic that led to the argument...He didn't apologize but instead he kept bitching! He's making it harder and harder for me to be a good housewife/wife to him. He had me crying my eyes out...I swear men just won't learn and understand