My man just don't get it when I say I'm tired trust me all I want to do is Relax nothing else my 3 kids all under 3 stress me out to the point that I'm done I'm saying no and just want to do what I want and that is to just relax .... even if that's laying in bed without any noise just anywhere I can be alone hell I'll go as far as locking myself in the closet lol