Am I the only parent that kind of let their kids talk it out when it comes to disagreements with other children at play…

Am I the only parent that kind of let their kids talk it out when it comes to disagreements with other children at play date or out in public before I have a talk with the other parent because lately I'm just seeing parents not letting their children speak for themselves with other children especially when it's little six year olds that obviously can use their words and don't need to use your hands? I've seen a grown adult parents Mother's and Father's getting angery with my children when my children uses their words to speak to their child about how there's a disagreement and I just kind of wondering what is this world coming to cuz obviously these children need to are going to live life and Mom and Dad is not always going to do the talking for them