I know this seems terrible but I have been talking to this guy for a few days and based off his pics on this site I was…

I've been through that like an extreme attraction then when I met in person I felt off I'm not all about looks but I need to feel attracted to you in all ways to make it function

I agree @skysmommy04, and they aren't that different but in the one full body pic he looks fitter and now he has weight on him. And he didn't really have a picture of himself smiling and smiling idk. I guess he's not like hideous but he's not my type per say. I'm not all about looks and someone's personality can make them more attractive but I'm a little thrown off on his real looks. @_maraplus4,

I for one care about teeth I'm s big smile person I need to know they are great. I know this guy he's alright personality wise kind of arrogant especially now that he got weight loss surgery but we click great as friends I feel bad that I didn't give him a chance because of his teeth but it kills me I can't weight is not a big deal for me as long as we aren't at a red level about to die can't walk up the stairs type thing lol oh and hygiene man you don't know how many people look "clean"- and show up looking and smelling homey

Yes smile is a biggie. I may just be being super picky about stuff on this guy and I feel bad about it because he seems really nice.and hygeine is huge on my list if you are dirty and smelly forget it! This guy is into cross fit but he's a little chunky from what I can see in his pics. Like I said he's not horrible looking but I'm just being super picky 😕 my ex is hard to beat when it comes to looks and I think now I compare everyone to him 😶 he's a tall glass to fill. @skysmommy04, but he also wasn't a very good boyfriend hence why we're not together, so I really shouldn't compare it's just hard not too.

Right! All my photos are recent and I look just how I do in my pictures. There's no surprise lol it sucks. Like idk what I'm going to do.@_maraplus4,

He's super serious! And He wants to come see me today while he's in the surrounding area. 😶 I'm thinking he'll just end up a friend. But who knows. I'm scared to meet him incase I'm really like turned off by his looks 😣@_maraplus4, I've dated a heavier set guy before but he was good looking and I've dated a by standards, not very attractive guy before but we just had a strong connection and his personality shined through and I was drawn to him. But that's hard to come by that typically doesn't happen.

@missjess well had I kept my assumptions about my fiance when I met him but I gave it a second chance at new years and we started going out Jan 15 and now we're engaged due to be married next January and have been living together for 5-6 mths

I don't think I'll totally disregard him yet. I'll see what happens @sapphirelevaou,

@missjess yes I took a chance and it turned out great so the same could happen for you, good luck 😀😊