I really thought my husband was ready for marriage and a baby. But actions really do speak louder…

I felt like that the first 6 months of my daughters life & my husband grew up and started acting more like a dad, he didn't help for the first 6 months hardly at all We now have a 2 month old also, I hope that happens for you 😊 I'm here for you, I've been there @lexishai,

I'm currently still going threw the same thing. Granted my husband watches our son while I go to work but as soon as I walk threw the door he's is already walking right out before I could get in comfortable.

@breebunny, it's rough, our daughter was planned but I just feel like he liked the idea and now since it's reality he is just a big jerk about everything

@momma_dee, men 😫

@qavo_mommy, ugh! I know how you feel, I am the only one working between him and I, he only watches her when I am at work but he doesn't watch her well and it pisses me off

@lexishai, that's same here I'm like I didn't make this baby alone. Guys just have no clue and act like they don't understand and then they blame us for are adittueds

this was how my husband was with our first pregnancy and i didn't even know if it was worth staying with him but then i miscarried and it like opened his eyes and he is the most helpful husband now he's amazing he will let me get some sleep without the dog bothering me right when he gets home from work and with cook dinner and clean. i have hope for ya'll!!

I know how you feel girl. They don't understand what It takes to be a mom n wife but still trying to get all these things done daily. Also taking care of kids. Some men take time to come to their senses.