I wont tell him this bc i know hes always tired from work and hes trying to relax and spend time…
I wont tell him this bc i know hes always tired from work and hes trying to relax and spend time with his friends some before the babys gets here...but for a while now ive gotten to where i feel like the only time we get to spend together is in the shower...he comes home from work and lays down or plays games after he takes a shower bc of how exhausted he is...i know hes noticed it before, and hes even asked me how i put up with him. The truth is though theres nothing to put up with. When he has the energy he spends time with me. I know hell spend time with the baby to. Just recently ive been trying to take a shower with him bc he lacks so much energy that even on his day off...we dont really spend time together bc im trying to let him rest. While theres nothing wrong with that, and he is near me all the time bc our room is the living room...i guess part of me feels lonely. So when he asked if he could take a shower by himself tonight i didnt say no, but i didnt say anything either. I just sat on the other couch. Yes i feel like im about to cry right now, but its not his fault bc hes only so tired all the time bc hes working his ass off to support us. So i try to let him relax bc he deserves it. Just hoping hell have more energy again once im able to start working again. Then he wont have to push himself so hard anymore. Then i know for a fact that hell have more energy to spend with me and the baby. Bc he did before i got pregnant, bc together we were making enough for us to easily survive...thats part of why i want to work again so badly. Its not his fault that hes tired all the time...
nikki martin·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
I'm currently in the same position as you are , my husband works nights so he sleeps all day and we barely get time for eachother he is always tired and stressed out and it takes a toll on me as well because I just want it to be like it was before I got pregnant hopefully it will be once the baby gets here
Bethany Swaney·
В ожидании первенца
@nikjax153 i think it will be. Its only been like this for the past month now with me
Bethany Swaney·
В ожидании первенца
@nikjax153 i do enjoy the small cuddle time i have with him before he goes to sleep though.