mrs.c
L.Cortez
Long long Rant/venting
So my husband got a text from his niece yesterday. It said
"I want to plan something for papas birthday. Christy fucking pissed me off so she is out what about you?"
This is where I get pissed! The last time she talked to my husband was at my baby shower a year ago. I kicked her mom out for being rude and acting if I wasn't there when I was talking to her I made it clear if you want a relationship with your uncle that's up to you two.
before he started talking to them again we kept away from them for five years. My husband sister is really crazy, she would act like my husband jealous ex and act like our oldest son was hers. before the baby shower my husband and niece only talked for a month.
Ok so now this is what really passed me off Saturday may 27th was my son's eight birthday. My husband, niece, dad or one of his crazy sisters did not bother to text, email or tell my husband say happy birthday to little frankie..nothing...and when our baby was born my husband sent a picture of the baby to his niece and she ignored the text.
I'm like how the fuck do you get it in your head "oh let's text uncle whom I haven't talked to or doesn't care for his dad and ask for favors"?
I could understand if she was a 13 years old but she is 20 not a baby anymore.
It's the morning and I'm still pissed. Just the way she said it "what about you?" Really? No hey how have you been..how was little Frankie's birthday....or how's the baby?
All I seen was can I get money from you uncle frankie
SMH
My husband tries to be nice so he told her "well Linda's baby shower didn't go so well and your momma and auntie are crazy, and I think papa is mad again"
I told him be honest. Tell her Linda doesn't want you around our sons because your little gangster boyfriend and friends jumped your 60 year old grandfather(the papa she is planning something for). Or just say well you haven't talked to me in a year so I'm out.
I don't really need advice we stay away from them for a reason. I just need to vent lol
Is there anyone else with annoying ass in laws? That only calls or text when they want something from your hubby?
So my husband got a text from his niece yesterday. It said
"I want to plan something for papas birthday. Christy fucking pissed me off so she is out what about you?"
This is where I get pissed! The last time she talked to my husband was at my baby shower a year ago. I kicked her mom out for being rude and acting if I wasn't there when I was talking to her I made it clear if you want a relationship with your uncle that's up to you two.
before he started talking to them again we kept away from them for five years. My husband sister is really crazy, she would act like my husband jealous ex and act like our oldest son was hers. before the baby shower my husband and niece only talked for a month.
Ok so now this is what really passed me off Saturday may 27th was my son's eight birthday. My husband, niece, dad or one of his crazy sisters did not bother to text, email or tell my husband say happy birthday to little frankie..nothing...and when our baby was born my husband sent a picture of the baby to his niece and she ignored the text.
I'm like how the fuck do you get it in your head "oh let's text uncle whom I haven't talked to or doesn't care for his dad and ask for favors"?
I could understand if she was a 13 years old but she is 20 not a baby anymore.
It's the morning and I'm still pissed. Just the way she said it "what about you?" Really? No hey how have you been..how was little Frankie's birthday....or how's the baby?
All I seen was can I get money from you uncle frankie
SMH
My husband tries to be nice so he told her "well Linda's baby shower didn't go so well and your momma and auntie are crazy, and I think papa is mad again"
I told him be honest. Tell her Linda doesn't want you around our sons because your little gangster boyfriend and friends jumped your 60 year old grandfather(the papa she is planning something for). Or just say well you haven't talked to me in a year so I'm out.
I don't really need advice we stay away from them for a reason. I just need to vent lol
Is there anyone else with annoying ass in laws? That only calls or text when they want something from your hubby?
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typicalwifegirl
That's a good policy to teach. My boys are still learning to share 😂😂
Sounds like the family is just full of things they gotta figure out. 🙄 That's so unfortunate. It'd be nice to have them around to just do family things without all the bullshit.
Hey, maybe if the zombie apocalypse happens they'll be the first to go and you get to have an "I told you so" moment 😂
Sounds like the family is just full of things they gotta figure out. 🙄 That's so unfortunate. It'd be nice to have them around to just do family things without all the bullshit.
Hey, maybe if the zombie apocalypse happens they'll be the first to go and you get to have an "I told you so" moment 😂
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mrs.c
@typicalwifegirl
Lol omg I totally forgot! Yup it's the mommy brain.
Oh my father in law is a whole another story. He tells my husband to get along with them and tell me to be nice to them.
He doesn't come around because he is always jumping from GF.1 to GF.2 and we don't want that around our sons.
We use them as an example of how family should not act with one another. We are teaching our boys respect is earned not given but common courtesy is for everyone.
So the way I explained to our oldest if you are rude with your brother and don't show him respect he won't show you respect.
If he wants to have a good brother relationship they both need to make an effort. Any relationship is a two way street not a highway and bike path.
Lol omg I totally forgot! Yup it's the mommy brain.
Oh my father in law is a whole another story. He tells my husband to get along with them and tell me to be nice to them.
He doesn't come around because he is always jumping from GF.1 to GF.2 and we don't want that around our sons.
We use them as an example of how family should not act with one another. We are teaching our boys respect is earned not given but common courtesy is for everyone.
So the way I explained to our oldest if you are rude with your brother and don't show him respect he won't show you respect.
If he wants to have a good brother relationship they both need to make an effort. Any relationship is a two way street not a highway and bike path.
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typicalwifegirl
I was about to mention we have babies with the same name 😂 then I realized we had that conversation before. Mom brain.
Does your husband's father intervene at all? Or is there just not much he can do?
I guess you just got to help the kids understand that family isn't always nice, and they just have to deal by example. Use it to teach them how to be the better person in situations like this haha.
Does your husband's father intervene at all? Or is there just not much he can do?
I guess you just got to help the kids understand that family isn't always nice, and they just have to deal by example. Use it to teach them how to be the better person in situations like this haha.
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mrs.c
@typicalwifegirl
Thank you! Lol
Yes it's a huge mess!
We moved four hours away and they are still bugging lol.
yeah my husband gets annoyed with them. He told his dad that his sisters and niece want us to consider their feelings but don't want to think about how they act with me or how our son will feel seeing someone being rude to his mom.
Seriously that would be funny to wrap it up!
Or give them a huge box of nothing lmao. You could say we got you the same thing you got us (: enjoy lol
Thank you! Lol
Yes it's a huge mess!
We moved four hours away and they are still bugging lol.
yeah my husband gets annoyed with them. He told his dad that his sisters and niece want us to consider their feelings but don't want to think about how they act with me or how our son will feel seeing someone being rude to his mom.
Seriously that would be funny to wrap it up!
Or give them a huge box of nothing lmao. You could say we got you the same thing you got us (: enjoy lol
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typicalwifegirl
What a mess 😂 I like the gift wrapping the Christmas list idea.
At least your husband is respectful of your feelings towards his family. But seriously, he has money saved up to provide himself and his family a good future, not to blow it all on someone who's perfectly capable of making their own money. 🙄 "Family" does not mean "free hand outs" smh
At least your husband is respectful of your feelings towards his family. But seriously, he has money saved up to provide himself and his family a good future, not to blow it all on someone who's perfectly capable of making their own money. 🙄 "Family" does not mean "free hand outs" smh
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mrs.c
@sunflowerchildmamaa
Honestly what I have learned from people like that is there is no talking to them. Sometimes you just need to say if you can't respect us and our home then you will no longer be welcomed.
15 that's old enough to know better she is not a baby, she needs to act her age not her shoe size.
I know I said I would understand if she was 13 but know that I think about it. I would not let that slide. My son is eight and has common courtesy for everyone. And most definitely knows better when there is a new baby in the home.
Honestly what I have learned from people like that is there is no talking to them. Sometimes you just need to say if you can't respect us and our home then you will no longer be welcomed.
15 that's old enough to know better she is not a baby, she needs to act her age not her shoe size.
I know I said I would understand if she was 13 but know that I think about it. I would not let that slide. My son is eight and has common courtesy for everyone. And most definitely knows better when there is a new baby in the home.
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mrs.c
Lmao right? Girl, I almost yelled "that little bitch!" When my husband told me. I just can not believe she had the audacity to ask him that.
Before we got together his sister would act like my husband was her daughter's(Kristina) dad. My husband would pick and drop her off at school if he wasn't working, buy her shoes, school clothes take her out to eat.
So when we got together nine years ago. I made it clear if want a family with me then you will not be paying for your sister's kid. You're not her dad she has one , if she doesn't like him that her problem not yours.
You want a baby then our baby comes first and will be the only child you buy stuff for unless it's their birthday LOL.
Omg that pissed off my sister in law, she would say "why not frankie, it's not like you don't have a good job?" Or "i know you have money saved up"
This women got mad at my husband for not dropping me off my OBGYN appointment and going over to trim her rose bushes when I was pregnant with our first.
Hahaha! You should send them your list! Wrap up your list and give it to them lol.
My Siblings are bad to. My little sister acts like she is better than everyone since she went to college(she was only there for a few months) she tries to tell me how to parent and what's best for kids, she has no kids. She'll say I am adulting and don't need help or ever had help, yet she has contacted me numerous times asking me to ask my parents for things and she can't stand my parents lol
She is four years older than my husband niece.
@typicalwifegirl
Before we got together his sister would act like my husband was her daughter's(Kristina) dad. My husband would pick and drop her off at school if he wasn't working, buy her shoes, school clothes take her out to eat.
So when we got together nine years ago. I made it clear if want a family with me then you will not be paying for your sister's kid. You're not her dad she has one , if she doesn't like him that her problem not yours.
You want a baby then our baby comes first and will be the only child you buy stuff for unless it's their birthday LOL.
Omg that pissed off my sister in law, she would say "why not frankie, it's not like you don't have a good job?" Or "i know you have money saved up"
This women got mad at my husband for not dropping me off my OBGYN appointment and going over to trim her rose bushes when I was pregnant with our first.
Hahaha! You should send them your list! Wrap up your list and give it to them lol.
My Siblings are bad to. My little sister acts like she is better than everyone since she went to college(she was only there for a few months) she tries to tell me how to parent and what's best for kids, she has no kids. She'll say I am adulting and don't need help or ever had help, yet she has contacted me numerous times asking me to ask my parents for things and she can't stand my parents lol
She is four years older than my husband niece.
@typicalwifegirl
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My husbands sister. She's 15 but she acts like such a brat. She got in a big fight with my husband just days after we came from the hospital bc she knocked on the door extra loud and the baby was sleeping. She didn't even bother greeting my husband or anything. So my husband got mad and told her to chill out and not be knocking on our door like that when she knows we have the baby. And she got offended by that. She's ignored me in the past and he has talked to her to set her straight before. Is as if she's jealous.
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typicalwifegirl
That's some entitled bitch mode right there. 🙄 tell her you'll help with the plans if she buys you a years worth of diapers.
Not in laws, but siblings for me. 😂 my brother and his new wife have made absolutely no effort to stay in contact with the rest of our family, but they're more than happy to email us their Christmas and birthday wish lists. Like literally the only time I get a response when I try calling or texting them is if I'm offering to buy them something.
Not in laws, but siblings for me. 😂 my brother and his new wife have made absolutely no effort to stay in contact with the rest of our family, but they're more than happy to email us their Christmas and birthday wish lists. Like literally the only time I get a response when I try calling or texting them is if I'm offering to buy them something.
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True, we hang out with out cousin on both sides because they are normal lol
Hahaha I laughed out loud my son was like "what's so funny mommy?"
It feels good to vent. I hate Facebook lol and I hate bitching about the same things to my husband. I feel bad for him LOL. I know he'll choose my feelings over theirs but I don't like bring it up to him all the time.
Just because they are his relatives and he tries to be nice.