My husband and i are expecting a baby in january. When i concived i was on birth control without my…
My husband and i are expecting a baby in january. When i concived i was on birth control without my husband knowing. I was on the depo shots. Now im almost 6 weeks into the pregnancy and my husband and i want different things with the baby. He wants to keep the baby and i want an abortion while im still early. I miss carried last year in the 3rd month of the pregnancy and that tore him apart. If i get the abortion thats going to tear him apart as well. Im only 19 years old and am not ready to be a mom. What should i do?
Lily Freeman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Either way someone isnt going to be happy, if you get an abortion, say you lost it. I don't condone lying but ei her you're going to be unhappy or he is.
chassity·
It's your body, your choice
chiquita·
im against abortion i feel like this if it happened it was meant to be there are woman all over the world are trying for a baby and cant i would love to be in your shoes right now knowing i have a little one growing inside of me you might not be ready but god dont put anything on you that you cant handle you got this and make a good decision @havocs.khaos,
Harley Quinn ·
While i do agree that it is your body, your husband played a part in creating the baby. So he needs to have a say in what is going to happen to his child. Plus you just said you got pregnant while on birth control.. so you have to wonder if it didn't happen for a reason. You also have to know that whenever having sex, even PROTECTED sex there is always a chance you could get pregnant. I know it's scary and no one is ever 100% prepared for a child. But I think if you decided to abort without your husbands knowledge that might as well be the end of your marriage.
Amber M.·
В ожидании первенца
at 6 weeks that baby has a heart.. he or she didn't ask to be here and God makes no mistakes. It's his baby too.. he should have a say so. But if you aren't ready, as in you aren't physically, emotionally or financially able to care for the baby.. adoption is always an option.
Amber M.·
В ожидании первенца
I also agree with @littleonemorning, especially if you're married.
kathy·
Мама подростка
I had 2 abortions when I was 19 and I wish I could take it all back, because I'm trying to conceive now and I can't 😔