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tam77
Tammy
Ladies i need a non partial opinion please: my son is 10 and has sensory issues we were at sil for bbq they are aware of his issues and he had been playing up a bit for around an hour i was trying to stop him being to rough with a little tent that belonged to our young niece when my husband jumped up because my son was having a melt down as id told him off ( he didnt understand what he did wrong) he put his hand over my sons mouth with such force my sons head hit the ground and told now you shut your mouth!! my son was very upset ( its not the first time husband has done such a thing for which I've said i won't allow him to treat my son like that) i told him if we were at home right now you would be out as I'm fed up of having to tell him its not ok to man handle my son. today husband has said his sis said i am in the wrong from what she saw. what do you ladies think?
28.05.2017
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tazrobs89
tazrobs89
Your husband is in the wrong if that was my other half no matter where we was or who was there I would of told him to leave or if it was not my family I would of left with my sons I would go mad if my other half done that to any of my kids and the fact I said he done it before and he can do it in front of ppl that is disgusting get rid of him before he dose something else xx
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tam77
tam77
thank you ladies I've told him he has to leave although he's refusing
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laurabump27
laurabump27
Sorry to be blunt but the fact that "it's not the first time" says that it's already happened too much and you should have already put a stop to it
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ginah
ginah
Excuse my language but I would fucking kill anyone who did that to my child! 😡 that's not how to teach or discipline a child- anyone with half a brain would know that! Hope your son is ok xx
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laurabump27
laurabump27
If my partner treated my son like that then he would be getting kicked out for good!!!
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sara-lou86
sara-lou86
If my husband did that to our kids he's be gone.
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sara-lou86
sara-lou86
That is not the way to discipline any child. It's aggressive & rude & will only confuse & scare your son. Yes tell him off if he's being naughty but I guess you both need to sit down & talk about the best way to discipline him would be. You have to be consistant with any child when it comes to boundaries & both parents need to be involved & on the same page. Have you sought advice or help on how to help your son with behaviour or does your husband just ignore the info?
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Id say your husband done that out of embarrassment if there was people around however its not nice seeing your son being treated that way and he should have left you to deal with him...but if you are married i think your husband should have a right to disaplin your son just not in an aggressive mannor!xx @tam77
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jess2801
jess2801
Err no he's in the wrong! That is no way to treat a child whether they have a special need or not. You were trying to defuse the situation and he escalated it. I don't want to be rude but if it's not the first time he's done that to him why are you still with him? Xx
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