Can some mommies give me their advice please. I am 20 years old about to be 21 next month and I am five weeks pregnant with twins - I just found out yesterday during an ultrasou...

Lullabelle May

Can some mommies give me their advice please. I am 20 years old about to be 21 next month and I am five weeks pregnant with twins - I just found out yesterday during an ultrasound it is twins. I am currently unemployed, but have been looking and my boyfriend already has a six year old daughter we have every other week. He works but only makes a few dollars more than minimum wage. We can't afford two babies at all and I have no clue what we will do. Should we even be having the babies? I am blessed to have twins, but right now isn't the time to bring life into the world not being able to support them. Please help. I have no one else to talk to. By the way I was on birth control the IUD and got pregnant.

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@cj@lullabelle, I don't think any of us moms knew how strong we are until we had our little bundles of joy in our arms. Believe me, you pull strength out of no where once you have your babies. It's the most amazing thing. You will be okay. Just, be positive. I know it's really hard right now but start making moves to prepare and everything else will come to you. ❤️ with your boyfriends support or without. YOU GOT THIS.

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lullabelle

@cjda2015 Aw thank you so much for the support and good words! I am feeling better already about this pregnancy. :)

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cjda2015

I was in the same spot as you as soon as I found out. I have a 7 month old and a 4 year old step daughter and just found out that we are pregnant again my babies will be 15 months apart and at first I wanted an abortion... I'm unemployed and the child support is killing us but in a crazy turn of events my husband got a position where he'll be making a lot more money plus babies are always a blessing. If you ever need to talk I'm always available and I wish you the best of luck twins will be a lot at once but you can do it if you put your mind too it I promise it does get better❤️❤️

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lullabelle

@abby.r1554 Oh wow you are close then. It's so nice I downloaded this app. I think I will make many friends. Thank you for your nice words. :)

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lullabelle

@sunflowerchildmamaa You are right. It is scary and my boyfriend and I keep arguing which makes everything worse. I think I am going to keep the babies and wing it as you said. I'm going to try and get work for next week and work my butt off to support these babies. Thank you for being a friend. :)

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I'm actually in Phoenix idk why it says I'm in Queen Creek lol
I personally wouldn't be able to handle having an abortion mentally or emotionally, even if my bf demanded it. If you can't either, then adoption seems like the right way to go. I'm always always here if you want to message me or anything, okay? ❤

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I'm always here if you need a friend. Even from afar.

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It was a rough decision for me too. My husband was unemployed when we found out. And I was bearly I mean bearly starting a new job. I found out I was pregnant on Friday and I started my new job on Monday. It was the most scariest thing. And like you, we had to make a decision. So we winged it. A baby is always a difficult thing and twins I can imagine. But the also bring a lot of blessings with them. I found out in August. My husband didn't find his job until December. And I winged it by starting my new job, but not saying I was pregnant until after my 3 month probation. I said I had just found out. It worked out. Believe me it's scary but eventually all the pieces fall into place.

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lullabelle

@kenzishae Lol. Yeah you're right. I just joined this app and am getting much kind words. I appreciate it. :)

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lullabelle

@abby.r1554 You are right. I've been thinking about adoption, but my boyfriend said he refuses to do that and give up his rights to anybody. He thinks since we can't afford them abortion is the only way and nothing else. I can't talk to him about anything it's difficult. I guess I will start looking into someone to adopt them so they can have a good life. I see you are in Arizona about an hour from me since you're in Queen Creek. It would be nice to have a friend.

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kenzishae

@lullabelle, there are a lot of people on this app that will help support you until your kids are grown. Lol

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