Ugh my husband has all day to himself to work on his car and it seem like nothing has gotten done…

Ugh my husband has all day to himself to work on his car and it seem like nothing has gotten done while I had a sick toddler and a teehing baby and he has not ask if i need help once only asked for food and beer like wtf dude i know you said you are manopausing but at lest ask if i need some help or something. I am so not in the mood right now to see his happy as face because i think i will just want to punch it. Sorry just not in a good mood since i was finally able to put the baby to sleep and lilly is still up and he is no where to be found in till they are both asleep.