@xxxzenixxx, ugh MILs! I just don't have the patience! When Hubby came home I could tell she must have had a go at him down the phone because he seemed off and didn't want to talk about her xx

Haha what a character!! x obviously I completely understand how u feel x working in the heat is hard x even worse when ur pregnant x of course ur not heartless x she's just making life hard for you and making situations hard x

@xxxzenixxx, I told my Husband I can't deal with her nonsense and how selfish of her to expect me to cook for them all even whilst being pregnant and in this heat. We all want to rest and not do anything when it's hot. He rang her and told her that I've not been well, I'm exhausted and he doesn't want me to over do it. She said okay and put the phone down on him!!!!!! She still came over at 3 and left at 4. Which was really strange but Hubby said it's because she's pissed off so she's being awkward and that he couldn't care a less anymore. I do feel bad I'm not heartless but she's a perfect example of someone who constantly takes advantage of someone's kindness xx

Hell yeah they are lol x That's the stupidest thing I've heard x how can u be too clean x she should be happy x haha same!! At first i was trying to be nice and really genuinely wanted to build a nice relationship with her x but i soon realised i was never gonna be good enough x

Well I'm happy that ur hubby knows what his mum is actually like with u x and yeah i get it x at the end she is still his mother x

Next time just order out x or fry some food x just say that you are in pain x your back or belly hurts and u feel faint etc x so sorry but u couldn't manage to make anything x

That way she will just complain but obviously ur husband can't say 'you should have made something anyway even if you were in pain' x

@firsttimemummy86, she's such a selfish person she thinks I should go above an beyond for her!

no way did she say that! she should bring food for you! MIL's what is up with them @mullika91

@xxxzenixxx, omg your MIL sounds like mine!! They're such nightmare!!! My MIL does the same she makes comments about how I'm over clean!! Who even complains about such thing!! Your soooo right babe they do want a free maid! I refuse to do any of it!! At first I would because I didn't want to be a cow but now after all this time I see how no one appreciates it and how they still talk crap so why bother. I wish my in laws lived abroad!! My Husband would be so blind to it all when we first got married but then I started showing him her texts and the convos me and her would have and how badly she would treat me. He was shocked and embarrassed that his mum would be so evil. Now he takes my side a lot more but of course it's still his mum so she takes advantage and pulls on his heart strings every chance she gets xx

@kate_smith, I just straight up said no. I've been dealing with them for nearly 6 years now and even if I made that she'd still complain, eat it and then ask for something else. She's such a bitch!!

I can't STAND my MIL either x why get your son married if u don't want him to keep a wife x i swear they only do it so they can have a free maid x my MIL came from Pakistan for a visit x made my life HELL!! Expected me to cook sooo much for all her guests and take care of my 1year old twins at the same time x then would criticise my food, how i clean an take care of my kids! 😡😡

How does your husband deal with his mum complaining about you??

Sounds really tough, it can be a real strain on a marriage to have such nightmare in laws :(

Make a super simple dinner, like bake salmon steaks in foil and boil some baby potatoes - its food, but its no effort, she won't be able to complain without sounding like a c**t ;)

@kate_smith, I literally want to cry! I'm so done!!! She wants me to leave my Husband because his family is so exhausting! They think I'm a robot! Only they get tired or unwell but expect the god damn world of me!! 😩 I couldn't even give two shit if she complains to him anymore he knows how I am I'll just tell her straight

What a bitch! She wants you to say no and then complain to your husband!