is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
I really don't think I can grow anymore I feel like it's twins in there lol but I know it's not. I feel like she gonna come early around 37 weeks with how big she is! 😯😩
And she likes it!! (she has a blanket on because I'm awake and watching her as I move her room around)
This is what happens when a littles sister doesn't listen and goes a bit bridezilla. She wants all her sisters to wear the same thing for her wedding in a few weeks. I told her "I can wear something as similar as I can make it, but being pregnant I can't wear the same exact thing. It just won't work". Then she settled on a denim shirt dress. Cute, but wouldn't work on me normally, let alone pregnant (I'm pretty tall). She said she'd just femme a bigger size to fit over the tummy. I told her the tummy would also make it even shorter. She wouldn't listen.
Mullika·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (30 нед.)
@xxxzenixxx, ugh MILs! I just don't have the patience! When Hubby came home I could tell she must have had a go at him down the phone because he seemed off and didn't want to talk about her xx
xXxZENIxXx·
Мама четверых детей
Haha what a character!! x obviously I completely understand how u feel x working in the heat is hard x even worse when ur pregnant x of course ur not heartless x she's just making life hard for you and making situations hard x
Mullika·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (30 нед.)
@xxxzenixxx, I told my Husband I can't deal with her nonsense and how selfish of her to expect me to cook for them all even whilst being pregnant and in this heat. We all want to rest and not do anything when it's hot. He rang her and told her that I've not been well, I'm exhausted and he doesn't want me to over do it. She said okay and put the phone down on him!!!!!! She still came over at 3 and left at 4. Which was really strange but Hubby said it's because she's pissed off so she's being awkward and that he couldn't care a less anymore. I do feel bad I'm not heartless but she's a perfect example of someone who constantly takes advantage of someone's kindness xx
xXxZENIxXx·
Мама четверых детей
Hell yeah they are lol x That's the stupidest thing I've heard x how can u be too clean x she should be happy x haha same!! At first i was trying to be nice and really genuinely wanted to build a nice relationship with her x but i soon realised i was never gonna be good enough x
Well I'm happy that ur hubby knows what his mum is actually like with u x and yeah i get it x at the end she is still his mother x
Next time just order out x or fry some food x just say that you are in pain x your back or belly hurts and u feel faint etc x so sorry but u couldn't manage to make anything x
That way she will just complain but obviously ur husband can't say 'you should have made something anyway even if you were in pain' x
Mullika·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (30 нед.)
@firsttimemummy86, she's such a selfish person she thinks I should go above an beyond for her!
muskaan·
В ожидании первенца
no way did she say that! she should bring food for you! MIL's what is up with them @mullika91
Mullika·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (30 нед.)
@xxxzenixxx, omg your MIL sounds like mine!! They're such nightmare!!! My MIL does the same she makes comments about how I'm over clean!! Who even complains about such thing!! Your soooo right babe they do want a free maid! I refuse to do any of it!! At first I would because I didn't want to be a cow but now after all this time I see how no one appreciates it and how they still talk crap so why bother. I wish my in laws lived abroad!! My Husband would be so blind to it all when we first got married but then I started showing him her texts and the convos me and her would have and how badly she would treat me. He was shocked and embarrassed that his mum would be so evil. Now he takes my side a lot more but of course it's still his mum so she takes advantage and pulls on his heart strings every chance she gets xx
Mullika·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (30 нед.)
@kate_smith, I just straight up said no. I've been dealing with them for nearly 6 years now and even if I made that she'd still complain, eat it and then ask for something else. She's such a bitch!!
xXxZENIxXx·
Мама четверых детей
I can't STAND my MIL either x why get your son married if u don't want him to keep a wife x i swear they only do it so they can have a free maid x my MIL came from Pakistan for a visit x made my life HELL!! Expected me to cook sooo much for all her guests and take care of my 1year old twins at the same time x then would criticise my food, how i clean an take care of my kids! 😡😡
How does your husband deal with his mum complaining about you??
Kate Smith·
Мама дочки-младенца
Sounds really tough, it can be a real strain on a marriage to have such nightmare in laws :(
Make a super simple dinner, like bake salmon steaks in foil and boil some baby potatoes - its food, but its no effort, she won't be able to complain without sounding like a c**t ;)
Mullika·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (30 нед.)
@kate_smith, I literally want to cry! I'm so done!!! She wants me to leave my Husband because his family is so exhausting! They think I'm a robot! Only they get tired or unwell but expect the god damn world of me!! 😩 I couldn't even give two shit if she complains to him anymore he knows how I am I'll just tell her straight
Kate Smith·
Мама дочки-младенца
What a bitch! She wants you to say no and then complain to your husband!