Family is making me feel like a piece of shit mom. I know I can't do everything perfectly as a FTM and also a first time…

Its ok mama im sure you're doing the best you can 😚

@milky_mama2017, thank you hun. That means a lot. I feel awful at times because I can't make her stop crying at night and my mother is constantly telling me what I didn't do right 😔

Girl you can't control that, my son was up all night crying just to eat an ounce of food every hour 😩 don't worry family is like that but its your baby

@beebaby, thanks love. It's so discouraging to ignore at times because I'm so new to this so sometimes I feel like I am an awful mom when the say things like "you don't know how to hold the baby or why she's crying"

Don't listen to them momma!!! Up to this day I still get shit & I can't say it doesn't hurt but really I'm sure you're doing the VERY best you can & no one can tell you otherwise. Stay up & shine bright! Your little princess needs you!🌸 being a mother is a blessing & the greatest feeling in the world I would say❤ as long as your happy & so is your little princess keep doing what you're doing momma❤💐

It's a learning process & the learning never ends! Therefore there's no wrong or right. You'll find out why baby cries soon. Push negativity away!!

You are doing the best you can and it's understandable but as a new mom put your feelings aside and take in all the information you can. You have to have a open mind if your strategies aren't working. With my first I listened to everything because I knew for a fact I didn't know wtf I was doing. I still don't know and I still take suggestions from other moms and elders

@avie, you're doing fine. It's a control issue with family. Babies cry. Sometimes we don't know why. You're a great mommy!