I need some advice ladies. My mom has made some terrible decisions in her life, completely…
I need some advice ladies. My mom has made some terrible decisions in her life, completely disregarded her children, and dated the absolute WORST of the worst. She's been on drugs on and off too, and will never admit it. I can always tell when she is though. Anyways, I decided to search the new man she's been seeing and moved in with (after a few weeks of knowing him), and there's arrest records for domestic violence. My 4 year old little sister told my grandma that he hit her and spanked her. He barely knows her and my mom lets him bathe her, take her to the bathroom, etc., bc she's lazy as fuck. I don't know what to do, but I can't watch my baby sister grow up in the environment I did with my other two younger siblings. What am I supposed to do in this situation though?
Cheyenne·
Мама дочки-младенца
I agree with @mrsmccormick, Is there anyway you can care for her? Or maybe her grandma? @babyjjsmommy,
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год)
@mrsmccormick, and another thing is the drinking. I've only been around them a few times and each time they're taking shots of fireball in the middle of the day, and doing God knows whatever else. They met on match.com if that tells you anything and he's pushing 60 but looks like he's on major steroids. This is just too much. I'd be done with the whole situation if my sister wasn't involved.
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год)
I totally would, but my grandma would probably be a better choice bc of me being in school and working. This just kills me inside. @timsprincess0214,
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год)
I want to so badly! But girl, it took 6 years and thousands of dollars (probably more) for my daddy to get custody of us when my mom was doing much, much worse. I really and truly tried to keep an open mind with this guy, but I've gotten bad vibes each time. The way my mom has acted recently just brings back those memories of how she acted when she was using. I know she's probably using steroids at the least, bc there is no doubt in my mind that he is on them. It's disgusting. @mrsmccormick,