When reality hits that you no longer look like yourself. To have that post 2 kids body if not…

When reality hits that you no longer look like yourself. To have that post 2 kids body if not better. Having goals helps but it is pretty overwhelming trying to get there when you have so many demanding people around you. Finding the time for me is my biggest struggle. I need some serious motivation, because while seeing this makes me want to change I don't feel like that alone is enough to push me to work as hard as I know I have to. Who else feels like this?