
I finally had Athena Joan!!!
Athena was born Wednesday, May 10, 2017. I went in for an induction at 5:00 AM because my labor had to be seriously controlled due to what happened during my pregnancy. I was 75% effaced and 3cm dilated when I went in and they started the pitocin drip at 6:30. Contractions started immediately and were roughly 7 minutes apart but not very painful. At 8:30, my midwife got there and was going to break my water but it broke on its own while she was in the room. I was also 4cm and 80% effaced. Contractions then were 2 minutes apart and excruciatingly painful. It felt like razor blades were going down the bottom of the spine with every wave, and I struggled to not vomit with every contraction. I wanted to put off the epidural until at least 9:30, but I was begging for one by 9:00. The back pain was unreal. They came in and gave me my epidural and because of my misaligned hips, I had some serious pressure and pain shooting down my left leg. After the epidural kicked in, I got very sleepy and the nausea stopped and I actually fell asleep around 10:00 or so. I woke up at 12:30 and they came in to check me and I was practically 100% effaced and 8cm dilated! I was so surprised and told the nurse that they should probably get things ready Because I went from an 8 to a 10 in 15 minutes with my son. She went to get my midwife and prepare the table and just like I said, very shortly after I was ready to push. I pushed for 7 minutes before Athena joined the world. She breathed in and swallowed a lot of amniotic fluid and wasnt breathing well and I had to just lay there and look at her purple body on a table because she wasn't breathing. It was so scary but finally she let out a big scream and then cried and cried. My husband cut the cord and I finished delivery and got stitches for 2 1st degree tears. Athena was born at 1:14PM at 8lbs and 18.25 inches tall. She became jaundice and had to be under the lights and I had the baby blues because I couldn't see her but to feed her so we were in the hospital for a couple days but we're home now and everybody is healthy and good.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Congratulations happy you and baby are healthy!! She is beautiful