when u start thinking ur so is cheating again. I told him all he gets is one chance and he is gone. he can text someone…
when u start thinking ur so is cheating again. I told him all he gets is one chance and he is gone. he can text someone he just met or his family but when it comes to the woman carrying his child and not get anything bak. just hurts. then plus he can talk and laugh up a storm with the people I work with knowing I feel out of place. and one of them being a female. and he doesn't see it when they are whispering bak and forth being secretive. but when something is said he says he ain't being secretive. I told him I feel like we are going in different directions and he doesn't seem to care one bit. he rather drink but yet he says he drinks cause of me. it seems like he tries to make me out like I'm doing the wrong when I speak up but yet he doesn't see wat he is doing. and I have done told him and an older guy I work with had told him. that right now is when I need him more than ever. but apparently he still don't get it. wonder wat would happen if I did leave him. if he would he think about everything that I have said.
Kelly S.·
To be honest if he had cheated on u in the past why give him a chance a cheater is always a cheater ive been through it in my past I did the same thing gave him another chance but he didn't change he still went back and cheated on me with the same woman and now I'm happy with someone else and I'm having a baby with him and this is my second child . If u feel like he's doing it again u should go with ur instinct and move on do what's best for u and ur baby that's all I'm saying .. I know ur tired of getting hurt and being left out I was like that to .. put ur foot down
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Cheyenne carter·
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he had relapsed on drugs not long after I got him clean and he cheated with his ex. but now we live almost 3 hrs from her and she is in a relationship with a son. I told all he had was one chance and if he cheats or relapses again I was done and wasn't coming bak. he felt bad one time about who he was with. cause the people where no good for him. and he broke down an hr later telling me how sorry he was and not to leave. but ever since we moved bak in together. it just seems like we are going in different directions. ya I get I'm 33 weeks pregnant and can't do wat I use to but still at this point I think I need u more than ever. he just don't get it.
Cheyenne carter·
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Kelly S.·
Mmm I see well that's hard try to teach him a lesson maybe the first time he thought u were kidding like I said put ur foot down .. the second time maybe he will listen im mean u got to sit down and have a good long conversation that ur not playing and dealing with his bullshit no more
Cheyenne carter·
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I have tried but he tries to turn around on me saying I'm bitching. all I want is time and for someone to show that they care. cause if u can't give ur baby momma/fiance time nor attention how are u going to do it with ur daughter. how would feel if his daughter was in the same situation. I tried packing all my stuff and leaving I was just waiting on someone else to come help me with my stuff and then he come and told me he wanted to stay and to come inside and watch tv. I just gotten to the point where I don't know what to do with him anymore. I try so hard and get nothing in return. @
Cheyenne carter·
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Lily Freeman·
Мама дочки-младенца
Im sorry but never mess with a druggie. You need to leave , actions speak louder than words and everything seems crystal
Delores Monter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I just went through the same crap. I had him escorted off the property because the last time he and I argued he put hands on me... guys that don't take responsibility for their actions usually never will. People can and some do change but most don't. He can't put his drinking on you. He is choosing to do that. My husband told me the same thing. If we had that kind of power to make them do stuff drinking would be the last...
Delores Monter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I am carrying his 4th child, I'm 35, he has "taken care" of me all these years, 20 to be exact. It's super hard... I'm still in our home until school is out and I have to walk away from my life, but it's for the good of myself. My entire pregnancy I had high blood pressure,'this past month we have been separated and yesterday my pressure was perfect. These guys are bad for our well being and our health.
Cheyenne carter·
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well he asked me if I wanted to see his phone and I told him y cause u done deleted everything I told him it would b amazing if we swapped for randomly for a week who would get busted. took his phone as we fighting and he gets defensive about it. all I wanted to do was delete every picture of me and his daughter off. hell he knows I have asthma and decides to walk out the door. I just don't know wat to do I love him and I always have but the past few months have been hell.
Cheyenne carter·
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Delores Monter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@ccarter9614, I have gone through my mans phone when I feel something is off... I don't do it all the time looking for stuff just when something inside of me tells me to. I've found something every time! Some worse than others... he tells me the same and hands me his phone, but I know all about deleting stuff so i won't take it. I know everything in the dark eventually comes to light, and every lie will be discovered. I learned this the hard way, I use to cheat and lie and guess what I got caught every time, life is so much easier and calm when you don't lie, but not everyone grows up. I'm sorry you are going through this pain, I know your pain. There will be one day that you will say enough is enough and you'll get to look back and realize how strong this situation made you. Maybe he'll change, who knows... I'll pray for you mama 🙏🏻