Just a little rant. I posted on Facebook some request me and my hubby had for when I go into labor. One of the request…
Just a little rant. I posted on Facebook some request me and my hubby had for when I go into labor. One of the request is only grandparents and great grandparents are allowed to visit for the first couple of hours. Which to me is reasonable. But my best friend texted me and sent me a screenshot of it and said I thought you wanted us up there I said no I want close family members and then other people. She literally had her read thing on and read what I said and then she turned it off. And now is ignoring me. Like childish bitch that's why I don't want you there and that's why one of my other request is that there will be absolutely no drama and if there is you will leave! Like grow up!🖕🏻😤
ivory Noir ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
My first obgyn gave me some really good advice with my first child he said it very seriously too and it always stuck with me "you are the one whose body has been changed, and now you will be the one whose body will be put through trauma. I want you to know it's okay to choose who, and when people come to see you and your baby. If there are any problems, just know, they are the problem" I ended up having a "problem" during my second delivery, that was unnecessary. But I keep always hearing my first obgyn telling me that. And now with me about to be third, there will NOT be a problem 😊. I hope that helps and sorry for the long response.
rebecca·
Мама троих детей
I'd kill my bff if she's didn't let me be there I have my bestie at my side during labor for all my kids and the next one too but mine isn't petty so maybe that's the diff lol if it would start drama I wouldn't do it either
Leah·
Мама сына-младенца
@annekam1022, honestly ur being really easy on guest I didn't let nobody just hubby and I. We called them 2 hr later and said baby is here
Makenna·
В ожидании первенца
Between me and my hubby we have a lot of family I just don't want a million people there!
Kimberly Crutcher·
I honestly plan on not telling ANYONE for the first 24-48 hours so we can have undisturbed privacy with our brand new baby. I don't want texts & phone calls either.
Makenna·
В ожидании первенца
Ya I just don't want to have to entertain either.
Oooh! ChicanaCrazy 🤷🏽♀️·
the hospital I deliver at does 2 hours of skin to skin where only mom and dad are allowed. or mom and 1 other person if dad isn't there. I love it.... it give parents personal time to bond.
Makenna·
В ожидании первенца
In my hospital I'll only be there 24 hours unless something happens
rebecca·
Мама троих детей
Wow I'm honestly surprised I've never heard of so many people NOT wanting friends n fam around it kinda blows my mind I guess. I always have a my mom my boyfriend n my best friend in the rm n guest visit immediately after last time Everyone came at 2 am. I guess diff ppl diff preferences but just interesting to see so many ppl reactions being so solitary
Cc DeV·
Мама дочки-младенца
I get why u upset..But did u look in her eyes? her bestfriend doesnt concider her as close family..Like I concider my bestfriend as close family. Idk ..their is more than just your point of view ..Yes I do think she took a childish approach..And I do think she should loom at your point of view...But you didnt look at hers neither.
Makenna·
В ожидании первенца
I do consider her family and she knows that. But I said I only want grandparents and great grandparents. I didn't say close family! But I see what your saying!🙂