The father of my 2 week old wants to take our daughter 4 days out of the week. And I think right now she's too young to be away from me I think especially since I breastfeed. He knows he can visit anytime he wants ( I even let him come at 2 in the morning after he's be out all night and me and the baby is usually sleep), and he is welcome to spend the night so I can have help even though she wakes up at 4 am and he sleeps too hard to hear her cry. I've told him we could go to his house and stay for awhile which use to be just fine until his mother came to town and told him she doesn't like me and how I parent MY child and says my daughter doesn't need me around. So now if I don't let him take her without me he'll go to court. I can respect that they don't want me there but I think right now she's just too young. I just don't know if the court will think it is too soon or will they set up a similar schedule. I'm wondering if you moms have been through courts this early and what they ruled was best for the baby
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At least this early, 2-3 days is better . Good luck mama
Even if u weren't breastfeeding, 4 of 7 days is to many for a new baby to be away from their mama!
@lovelily I hope so. I'm afraid he'll tell them I'm just using bf as an excuse since I use to supplement with formula but I stopped since I was providing enough milk
@mama_alia thank you. It's difficult not to pass these negative feelings to her when bf.
Unless you're on drugs, neglectful, or just plain stupid, there's no way a judge would take that child from you even for a split schedule. She is way too young to be apart from her mom so much.
They won't let her until she's 1 since your breastfeeding. He's so full of shit
@babylove11416 exactly. She wants me to be formula feed because she thinks I'm "keeping her to myself". Because she fed her child formula she doesn't think breastfeeding is necessary. Her minute with her exhausting i can barely take it
And if the penedeja doesn't like youbor the way you parent, like who gives a flying fuck what she thinks? Your daughter is 2 weeks !!!! You can't even fucking parent at 2 weeks but care and nurture cause she's just a BABY!!!!!!! 😡😡😡😡😡
I don't know how to help you there him but for a FACT!!!:--- if your breastfeeding her and she's still a newborn and he wants to bitch and complain he can't get her, right now you are her source of nutrition and sense of security . Not only he and his mother would put you thru the stress but it's completely unnecessary to do that. Shit if I was in that situation, i tell it straight up as it is. I breastfeed, I recently gave birth to her and it's soon for me to let her go. I'm already exhausted as it is and he's not understanding me nor what our daughter needs. If he wants to start a custody battle, right now you'd be in favor. Because your still adjusting to motherhood and this isn't fair.
They will not let him take her you just had her like literally. Let him take you to court and feel stupid. Even if he tries to say you are using bf as an excuse the judge is still gonna think hes stupid shes a newborn she needs her mama. The judge wont let you leave without your baby girl i promise you that.