So my husband and I have been working with couples since we got married who are not at their…

So my husband and I have been working with couples since we got married who are not at their healthiest. But one thing I ask women is "Are you living in your relationship or just surviving?" Survival is mostly tolerating your environment making your own emotions adjust to the other person's to only benefit them. Yet a woman will neglect her own personal needs and not live life or care for herself. She becomes a wilted flower in need of love and care.