After having my son I've noticed myself not wanting to be around HIS FATHER and at times I don't…

@sebastiansmami, i experience that feeling now... i wish my children fathers were how my dad was with me an my sister, my mom wasn't there for us at all but my dad cooked fed us did our hair clothed us ect... everything! But these guys ive had kids by make me sick they hardly have any fatherly instincts

@sixplusones, right now I'm still on maternity leave still and I'm taking care or our son from morning to night. Because he works and wakes up at 7 everyday but it's like I get that and all but not even on the weekends when he's off does he give me a break and be like u know what I'll wake up with the baby I do this or that with him so u can rest no!!!! I still take care of him he helps me when he feels like it or he see that I'm annoyed or I have a attitude with him than he'll act like he wants him

@sebastiansmami, yea thats the same with mines its like he will help every once in awhile but nowhere near as much as i do for the lil ones i feel like these are my kids by another guy an hes jus here tryin to help raise them with me or like im a single parent at times, im pregnant with my first girl with him an although im happy im regretting it because I already have to do damn near everything for my kids an i dont feel like hes gonna help with his daughter either so i jus see myself stressed out tired miserable skinny an depressed an feeling stupid that i didnt stay on birth control an now im starting over agin when I could have been done with this these guys don't appreciate nothing especially the kids we bare for them or even us for that matter

@sixplusones, i feel you on all that what's sad is that we both planned our son and he helps out but I feel like he should help me out more don't get me wrong I love my son and I love every second I spend with him but sometimes mama just needs a 5 min break. I feel like he regrets him and he's ashamed to show him off on his social media for what reason IDK 😐. I feel bad because sometimes I feel like I shouldn't have gotten pregnant and had him.

@sebastiansmami, yea same here i feel like I shouldn't have brought my babies into this world without having a supportive father an even my sons father doesn't take them with him anywhere that often i have to ask him n i dont feel like I should have to ask a father to take his child or help with them but its like if i dont ask he does nothing he doesn't give them baths brush their teeth dress them feed them (its every blue moon when he does) but not on a daily basis im jus kinda sad that i didnt choose wiser im such a fool for this choice