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I don't care for "holidays" such as Mother's Day etc etc. I've barely seen my father make an effort for my mom and at a…

I don't care for "holidays" such as Mother's Day etc etc. I've barely seen my father make an effort for my mom and at a young age decided I wouldn't expect anything so I wouldn't be disappointed like I saw my mom disappointed. Problem is i carry it on to other holidays and had to realize other people do care about it and do get hurt if expectations aren't meant. I'm going to try to remember when Father's Day is, so it's not a big deal again that I forgot and just don't care about it. We're not together but he's a good father and since he cares about I'll make an effort.

What would you do? - baby shower

What would you do? - baby shower SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever, I don't need her, I didn't have this baby for her to raise. I'm married, living on my own and paying all my own expenses.