I need advice on something. How do I tell my fiancé that I just want to spend time with him since…
I need advice on something.
How do I tell my fiancé that I just want to spend time with him since I'm the beginning he was in rehab like the whole time of this pregnancy besides the last 4 1/2 months?
M & M·
Just tell him. Is he not easy to talk to? Maybe you can plan something and make it happen. What's keeping y'all from spending alone time together? @krispy1996
mylittlepea·
В ожидании первенца
Tell him that you want him there for you because the first months were hard he has to understand
Kristy Soesbe·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (29 нед.)
@mybabyboyontheway, thank you!
Kristy Soesbe·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (29 нед.)
@chocolate_drop, he's not hard to talk to. But he always says I know, I'm sorry, & I'll try harder. Which he has tried harder. And well he has friends over every weekend. I don't mind since I work Friday nights or Saturday nights but I'd like them gone when I get home from work(which is at like 11:00/12:00 at night sometimes and I leave at 4:00). And then I always get upset when he can't respect that rule and crap like that. I get he works full time and wants friend time. But it would also be nice to see him too without him inviting friends along to do crap with us. :/
We are supposed to go fishing today so I will talk to him about it then.
M & M·
@krispy1996 I HAD that friend issue with my husband a few years ago. I told him why I had an issue with it and he made excuses and tried to justify them being over all the time. I sat back and watched him ignore my concerns for one week (one co-worker would come over 7 days a week) and two weekends. I will not stand for disrespect in no way. I told him either you tell not to come that often or I will. My husband acts like saying no to his "friends" will ruin his life. I'm assuming he told them because they very rarely come visit. They'll invite him places, but most of the time he declines the offer(by choice). I have even put his family out. I used to sit in my room and be mad because we'd have something planned, they'll come over, and he don't tell them that we're about to leave. I started doing it myself. Now he makes sure he get everything straight at home before anything else. Some men need to be taught. A lot of times just telling them don't work; you have to show them. I hope you're able to work that out. I no longer have that problem. His family and friends know I'm nice and sweet, but not to step on my toes.
Kristy Soesbe·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (29 нед.)
@chocolate_drop, this seriously helped me a ton! Thank you so much :)
M & M·
@krispy1996 you're very welcome. Glad I could help.