my oldest has a different father than the rest of my children.. his father passed when i was pregnant with him, by his family.stayed in the picture. 2 years later I met my now husband.. we got married and are now going to have our 3rd child together. as years have gone on my son calls my husband his dad and his bio father's family has become more.distant. in thw past 2 months they have not asked for my son because he has baseball practice Friday and Saturday night, and they don't want to have to take him..his grandmother showed up today when we were leaving for his practice, I forgot this weekend was mother's day, Bd told her she could pick him up after his practice at 5pm tomorrow night. when my son got home tonight I told.him be could go next weekend because I really.wanted him home for mother's day, and he got upset saying he wanted to go... I am super heart broken.. I don't get to spend much time with my kids. him being my first it hurts so bad. now.i just want to let him go, but I know.my husband will get upset and give him a huge lecture about how they are not his parents and he needs to spend the day with me.. although even though I am.schedule off I still have to go in around 6pm.
I'm hurt but try in to hide those feeling from him.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I a bitch? My husband wanted to go to lunch with a girl who's a friend but her boyfriend wouldn't be there. I threw a fit and got upset and he didn't go, should I have let him?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??