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becky
becky
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

my oldest has a different father than the rest of my children.. his father passed when i was pregnant with him, by his…

my oldest has a different father than the rest of my children.. his father passed when i was pregnant with him, by his family.stayed in the picture. 2 years later I met my now husband.. we got married and are now going to have our 3rd child together. as years have gone on my son calls my husband his dad and his bio father's family has become more.distant. in thw past 2 months they have not asked for my son because he has baseball practice Friday and Saturday night, and they don't want to have to take him..his grandmother showed up today when we were leaving for his practice, I forgot this weekend was mother's day, Bd told her she could pick him up after his practice at 5pm tomorrow night. when my son got home tonight I told.him be could go next weekend because I really.wanted him home for mother's day, and he got upset saying he wanted to go... I am super heart broken.. I don't get to spend much time with my kids. him being my first it hurts so bad. now.i just want to let him go, but I know.my husband will get upset and give him a huge lecture about how they are not his parents and he needs to spend the day with me.. although even though I am.schedule off I still have to go in around 6pm.


I'm hurt but try in to hide those feeling from him.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.