So a few weeks ago I asked my family for some J name suggestions and me and my hubby picked names…

So a few weeks ago I asked my family for some J name suggestions and me and my hubby picked names again after we were set on 2 others for years but we changed them. So I told my family and they're like no change it. I know it truly doesn't matter as long as me and hubby like it but with them bashing the boy and girl names we picked (without my hubby even knowing) it hurts and I don't know what to do. 😩😩😩