@sixplusones ive gotten to where i can ignore it.

@bethany_swaney, yea i dont allow or have male docs either n yes the wand is to much i hated that too an thats wat i tell myself too "its for the baby" an when its happening i jus close my eyes an find a happy place

I only allow it bc of the baby. That and ive been having to deal with the violation since before the baby just to find out what was wrong with my system. I think the most uncomfortable procedure ive had to have was having the wand stuck up in me. The first time out of 3 times the wand hurt like hell. Its not that it doesnt bother me, its that i just keep telling myself that its for the baby.
Due to reasons related to my past though...i wouldnt allow a male doctor to do it unless i didnt have any other option.

@rmreed, an trus me if it was a guy I wouldn't even have to be told to change because I wouldve ran out of there an u wouldn't even hear me complain lol

@sixplusones Oh lol I feel yah!!

@rmreed, @rmreed, its not the lady doc i have but the overall procedure its self is jus feels like total violation to me... ppls fingers jus in ur personal area yuck im like is there a better way

Switch doctors!!