So stressed out. The parents of my god daughters and God daughters moved into my rents place back in…
So stressed out. The parents of my god daughters and God daughters moved into my rents place back in Jan. I told 'll of them from the get go that I didn't think it was a good idea and was gonna end in drama and fighting. No one listened to me. So they lived there to save back money and get a better place. My mom got surgery around the same time and a lot of things nvr got talked about or communicated. So now all this fighting has been going on and today they moved all their stuff out and they fought with my rents (who still didn't charge them rent but they owe some for the time they were there) and left things broken and not fixed like they said they would be and lots of hard feelings and my rents r very upset and don't ever wanna see them again and now I am stuck in the middle per usual and I don't need this fucking shit. 😬😧😭 I just wanna block them all out for a week and let this all settle down so I won't have to hear about it but I can't cuz my mom needs help so I'll be out first thing on Monday and I know she will rant to me about it all day 😫
CAS·
Omfg that is completely frustrating 😡 what is wrong with people. I swear some adults act more childish then children themselves. Ugh I hope everyone can calm down and come to their senses. I'm sorry love 😔
Dez·
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@bebefever94 it's not ur fault but I agree and the problem is they NVR sit down and talk about it and communicate so everyone just harbors these bad feelings for each other and each think the other has done them wrong when they rly havnt most of the time and then they just end up fighting more. I figured they would all try and talk about stuff before they moved out and get everything worked out. Instead they just kinda grabbed their shit and ran in a fuck u kinda way which that actually has me a little upset with them but they both have temper issues and when I try to tell one side what the other is feeling or thinking they tell me that's not the problem at all and blow me off when I am giving them insight into what happened and no one wants to fucking listen to me just ran and bitch to me to have me fix it or tell so and so this. It's just so frustrating cuz I don't want it to effect my friendship but it's also my rents and I don't want to be involved and it has nothing to do with me yet I'm always in the middle 😧
CAS·
Put your foot down girl! Remain neutral. You warned em they didn't listen so now they can figure it out themselves. You are their friends and those are you parents you don't need to be forced to pick a side. You do not need that stress on you. So tell them respectfully to fuck off cause you have other things to worry about than petty bullshit
Dez·
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@bebefever94 what's what I've been telling both sides from the get go. I told them I don't want to hear about it it has nothing to do with me. But now it will have to do with me cuz my rents don't ever wanna see them again and they r an important part of my life and both will be at my shower in less them a month. Ughhh. Cuz my friend will txt me about it and all I told her today was how my mom was feeling and why she may have snapped (she does have a lot going on) not defending her but giving them insight and not taking sides and she got pissed at me and was all like that's not the problem at all. Like srsly I should know better then u I spend at least 5 days out of the week with her and heard her rant all day yesterday before the fight last night but no don't listen to the person who would know best other then the person herself.