Why is having a c section seen as weaker or that we didn't give birth? My husband brought it up today because he's seen people say that on facebook and it made him mad. I risked...

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Why is having a c section seen as weaker or that we didn't give birth? My husband brought it up today because he's seen people say that on facebook and it made him mad. I risked my life to bring my baby here. I woke up intubated. I couldn't lift my arms for a week after she was born, my husband had to feed me. Day six I could barely breathe because the anesthesiologist messed up so bad and none of it mattered because I brought her into the world. How does that not count?

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I personally think a c-section is worse i never had one and give props to anyone that has

Dawn Mann · Answer

@beebaby that's exactly how I feel

Dawn Mann · Answer

Im so glad I don't have FB

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@fabledturtle I agree whole heartedly. People need to be more supportive instead of always trying to 1 up one another. At the end of the day I've never met a woman who compared giving birth to going to a spa so which ever way the cat is skinned it's no walk in the park lol

Kimberly W · Answer

@rhealize 🙌🙌😂

Kimberly W · Answer

@kimny I really hate that we can't just focus on raising great kids. I think sending out people who can change the world is more important than whether or not you are able to push a baby out or whether or not you do it drug free. People are so judgemental 😩

Rhiannon V · Answer

If there were an easy way, guys would do it 😂😂

Kimberly W · Answer

@rhealize I'm too weak to push so if I tried the doctor almost guarunteed would have had to do a c section anyway. I ended up going into labor the day of my c section so I got a little taste of contractions and those are no joke either, mama. There is no easy way to have a child!!

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Csection is more life threatening and recovery is gruesome in comparison to a vaginal birth. Not to mention after having your intestines removed out of your body and rearranged, you have to come home in less than 2 weeks and still hold your baby on that fresh wound when most abdominal surgery patients don't lift anything for months. Whoever thinks c sections are a walk in the park are idiots who want a false sense of superiority over the next woman. Just like women who think women who don't breastfeed are less than those who do.

Rhiannon V · Answer

I had both naturally and have the highest respect for C section mommies. Somehow pushing a watermelon through my lady bits seemed easy, but going under a knife just terrifies me! I was so scared of the possibility through both pregnancies!

Kimberly W · Answer

Honestly the worst pain for me was my back because they tried to stick the spinal and epidural so many times,my back was purple 😖.  I think it's so beautiful that we get to create life and raise children I don't see how the way  we give birth changes who we raise! I still have to explain to people why I couldn't do it naturally and why I couldn't breastfeed 😒 @haleybae

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