Has anyone else had an troubles in their relationship since finding out they were pregnant? I have…
Has anyone else had an troubles in their relationship since finding out they were pregnant? I have been my bf for almost 4 years and yes we have our arguments but since i found I was pregnant, the fighting has been nonstop, it's not verbally abusive, but we fight over little shit to the point I don't even know if I want to renew my lease with him in November and just get my own place with the baby.. the thought of that kills me because I love him so much but this stress is driving me insane and I know it's not healthy for the baby. I was starting to think it's because he's upset I'm pregnant but he's reassured me it's not that but it's my attitude that he has a problem with and I try to explain to him about mood swings and how high our hormones are when we are pregnant but he thinks I use that as an excuse to be rude and fight. I am just so upset right now 😞😞
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It's not an excuse that you're hormonal it comes with a package being pregnant.
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He doesn't get it because he doesn't have hormones
Mommy17·
Me and my boyfriend got along GREAT! Perfectly. About a month and a half into the pregnancy we started fighting and now we argue every day. It sucks, but honestly some things are just out of our control and they don't understand that. Keep your head up. !
Ann Ermey ·
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Tell him that you're thinking of moving out until the arguements resolve. You can also have him come to a drs appointment and blatantly ask the dr about your moods and what to expect
Jessica ·
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@evanasmama, yeah he doesn't get it and I've explained it to him and he says he tries to understand but it's not showing. @zanesssmommy, yup that's how we were too until now and I hate it and not trying to stress myself out but it's hard because I'm so hurt 😞. @star_wars_freak_2010, yeah I have stayed at my moms a couple nights due to it, but that is a good idea.. I have an appointment next Thursday and he's coming, I will definitely ask that. @mimprince, he said he's nervous which I understand, he has a daughter but she's 8 so he hasn't dealt with a baby in over 8 years so I understand where he's coming from but this is my first and I'm so nervous and emotional. This first trimester has been horrible for me so I'm hoping it will get better soon
Mommy17·
Honestly, I know how you feel... It's a horrible feeling especially when you know you can't control it no matter how hard you try. You do everything you can to make ends meet, but nothing is good enough. It's just argument after argument. If you need to talk, can always message me 😁
Andrea·
Pregnancy does come with crazy hormonal changes. Talk and communicate. I'm sure he still loves you and you him. You both will have to fight through by talking things out. If it's a first baby, he might be stressed out. Because on a man, he'll be thinking of how he will provide for his family or if he will have enough, or if he'll be a good father, and etc. men don't admit their insecurities as easily as women, so set aside your anger and pain, and just calmly talk to each other. Start with the positive things. Then gently talk about your guys concerns. I hope you work things out, moving out on him, will stress him more. And in this world, people like to leave to hurt the ones they love for hoping that they'll get chased and loved back. Well, I say fight love and love on. And never give up. ❤️when a baby comes, what you both have will be worth it.
Jessica ·
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@summerdream, Thank you for the awesome advice! Yeah I don't think I would move out, it would just cause to much stress on both us and the baby.. I'm sure things will get easier.. we are just having a rough patch right now but I do believe we will get through this. He's such a great guy and treats me like a queen, I think we are both overwhelmed with everything, but I think we will make it through this tough spot we are in ❤