So I guess what I say doesn't go when I'm a mom.. or be politely told my mother in law to not make my son's food.
1. I don't ever want it thrown in my face that I do nothing for my son.
2. I'm not sure what foods my son is allergic to yet.

She has bought his diapers, food and clothes 2x after I've told her thank you but my husband I have his needs. It's our responsibility. It just goes in and out her ears I guess because I see like 5 jars of food made in the fridge.

I might as well not even be his mom. It's like I have to compete to be my child's mother. I don't know what to do!