Me and my ex were trying to fix our relationship but he never saw it important that I wanted to know…
Me and my ex were trying to fix our relationship but he never saw it important that I wanted to know where he was going or going out with (he didn't go out often) and he also thought it was okay to go out with female friends I didn't know... he said he felt as if it was a chore having to tell me... he's unhappy cause I ask him to tell me certain things that he wants to be personal and I'm unhappy cause I have to keep certain feelings or questions to myself and it bugs the crap out of me... what to do... zzz quil for tonight is a must

Marilu·
My husband did that while we were dating. Went through me like lightening. I plain out told him, either we are an open book or we don't have a book. There was this girl that was engaged to someone else but made it clear to me that my bf (at the time) was her best friend. According to my (bf) her fiancé was his best friend, not her. She got mad because when we got together he talked to her less. Females from his past tried to start trouble too. I told him to stop talking to exes (because they were causing problems) and we are open with each other. He changed because he loves me. Today he won't even talk to another woman unless it's work related. He's crazy but does have a lot of respect for me in that area now. I trusted him then and now but never trusted the females. Just not a good idea.