Just SO frustrated today... and it's not any one thing... it's just everything! I have no family or real friends that…
Just SO frustrated today... and it's not any one thing... it's just everything! I have no family or real friends that live anywhere near me... people just assume I can do all things, because I try not to complain, and rarely ask for help... then I get overwhelmed and frustrated and people ask why don't you just ask for help... so to keep my blood pressure down... I've been asking for help... and every single time, it's never convenient for them! 😤😓... but you better believe if they need something... in the first person they come to, because I treat people the way I want to be treated, instead of how they treat me! 😓😢 my husband tries SO hard to help when/where he can... but sometimes I feel like I'm all alone on an island... I feel like some days it would just be easier not to try... because then, I won't be frustrated when I can't do everything by myself! 😣 being a pregnant stay at home mom is probably the hardest thing I've ever had to do! Only 14 weeks left... then I'll have my body back... and be able to do everything again! 😒
Bryanna ·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
I'm sorry to hear that 😔 @dreamermom, I feel the same way and I'm also a STAHM and pregnant. It does get hard
Tiffany·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
@bryannathompson391, it sucks... I'm a very goal/task oriented person... being home nothing is ever 'done' so I've started projects... and then when I can't finish them, it makes it SO much more frustrating! 😓 I just feel like I'm failing at everything... so I've decided I'm just going to stop trying so hard! If I don't start any more projects, I won't add to the frustration I already have! I just wish I had someone who would WANT to help me! Instead of always being an after thought, I get people are busy... but if you are not going to help me, don't tell me to ask for your help! 🙄😒 sorry to vent... I think the older I get, the less I like 'people'🤔
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@dreamermom you spoke my life. On top of what you said, the one person I thought I could count on but have never asked for anything, my SIL - she is an STNA that wipes asses for a living but when she simply visits will not hold her "nephew" because he drools as all babies do. But always said things when I was pregnant of being my #1 supporter . people are ridiculous smh im sorry your overwhelmed, one task one step one day at a time. Let the house work go for a day, then the next morning it will feel better to get it all done