I feel like I'm a bad mom. Like I could do so much better if I just knew what to do. 😳 I see all…
I feel like I'm a bad mom. Like I could do so much better if I just knew what to do. 😳 I see all these moms on here so motherly and I'm here like what do I do now, she's been fed and burped. Now she's just staring at me. Am I feeding her enough? Should I be doing something more? How many times should I give her a bath? How long should I let her sleep? Should she be sleeping this long? I hope she's breathing okay, she sounds stopped up. I'm so scared that she's looking at me and thinking "you're really bad at this mom thing." 😓 I'm just feeling like a bad mom this morning.
Tanna·
Мама дочки-младенца
@beachmama Thanks! Just feeling a little down.
Brooke H·
No matter how many kids you have you will never learn everything. I'm a mom to 3 kids and still feel like I can do more. Pm me if you need a friend!! I'll try to help you. @nahla
Faith Moore·
You sound like a mom! Worry and guilt and fear come with the territory. Just remember that people feel differently on the inside than they show on the outside. We're all not sure we can do this. But we can. You can. You got this!
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Thats what we all went through.
Tiffany·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (29 нед.)
Yeah sweetie, that's about it in the beginning... my daughter was born 7 weeks early, I was terrified at first that I was going to break her! Only 4lbs1oz! But really when they are first born, all you do is feed them, burp them clean them and about once a week or so bathe them... I remember getting a call from my dad after having my first, asking me how things were going... I was like fine I guess, she eats, poops/pees, I change her and she falls back to sleep... that's about it! 😅 at 5 am was her party time... she was more awake for maybe 30-45 minutes... then back to sleep she went! Babies grow when they sleep... since she was a preemie, and had a lot of growing to do, I let her sleep whenever she wanted to! Lol
talea saylor·
The fact that you are worried about it makes you a good mommy! It gets easier as you get more comfortable and as she gets older and more interactive with you. But I still have no idea what I'm doing and I just take it day by day. The constant worry is something that started as soon as I found out I was pregnant and hasn't gone away, I don't think it ever will now that I'm a mommy.
Kaylie Ann·
Мама дочки-младенца
I felt like that before my girl developed her personality a lot and still sometimes too but you have to remember that there's no book to parenting. You constantly learn new things and you'll never learn it all. You keep doing what you're doing momma! When she gets a little older it's going to get easier. Hang in there 💗💗
Annie H·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Your not a bad mom don't overthink it and just take one day at a time do the best you can with what you know and at 1m they just pretty much sleep and eat and it's the one time that you will have to clean a bit organize....eat ...drink your favorite drink..... so enjoy that also .