Ok, great..... When do you have time for youself?

@gettingthelifeyoudesire, as in taking care of the girls? It's just me for the most part. Their dad works from 3pm-3am so as my oldest gets out of school he is leaving so once I have them both, he is gone. Then sleeps most of the morning. He will feed the baby once, that helps...and he helps put the oldest on the bus so I can stay w the baby.

I often hear from mom's the same story... My children are older now and I do understand the challenges and frustration...

I had 5 son's as a single mother before marriage, it was difficult. I wish at that time I would have balanced my time more.

So, with that being said.. balance is key, so very important. If you're pouring your whole self into everything and everyone else and nothing for yourself..... I promise you, you will lose...

Lose what?????? Yourself and most of you already have...

I suggest that you define balance for youself......Get into your sacred space, internally... take care of your inner girl..... She needs you and you need her!

More on this in a post...😍😍😍😍

@luceromommy Who helps you?

Clam as in when?

Staying calm! I do to but lord theirs timed i want to rip my hair out

@luceromommy it is kinda hard because my oldest have so much energy im left with only a little and the newborn is definitely taking that up and with the dad's been one out of state and the other is on again off again as far as relationship i dont get as much help to give the attention they both need

Im alittle like @melindaflowers929, my oldest wants to play outside or w video games or even coloring and my little just wants to see me making faces lol be held or fed burped or changed. It's hard to keep them both happy

Trying to learn how to give my attention to both of my kids equally with such a big age gap in between them 5yr old and a newborn.

Having energy to attentive to the older kids... i feel like im a sergeant when i deal with them... homework, chores, bathe, sleep... i want to enjoy them. But i feel like i cant cause i need to be mom. Since dad is so busy i cant play too much with them cause they already barely listen without me yelling.

Getting enough sleep while keeping the house clean