If you lived near me I'd be trying to hunt his butt down!! I'm sorry you are dealing with this, but please, PLEASE, let that man have it.

Smh. Has he come home yet? That's just unacceptable. I hope he has a good excuse

@momtobetobabyc, so yea he hasn't came in yet. Looks like he's staying the night out!

Hehe I used to have a dog ..and when ever my SO would come home from work I would tell her to smell him if he smelled like food she would be soo happy ..when someone touched him or hugged him I would know by the way she looked at him

@momtobetobabyc, yes I know!

lol girl you know we gotta stick together @zylasmommy,

@zylasmommy, I know lol.

@mrskelly, @momtobetobabyc, I wish I can like you guys comments 😌

@momtobetobabyc, thanks if I have the energy after what all he's bout to hear!

Smh. I'll be here if you need to talk afterwards.

@momtobetobabyc, I'm not, I'm not as upset as I usually would be that's a good thing & a bad thing means I'm getting use to being treated this way. But we'll see how it be when he gets in here.

@zylasmommy, smh see niggas be having hidden agendas! & then they wonder why we mad not cause you wanna go out it's just you can't just say I'm going to hang with my friends for a while instead you don't say anything you just stay out that makes you look suspicious cause you couldn't tell me where you was going cause obviously you ain't want me to know, my bf knows I'm not dumb by a long shot! I pulls his cards & imma sit & see how he reacts you know what they say when they get defensive.

What you allow will continue but you're stronger than this, girl. Don't let it get you too down. Let him know how you feel and if can't understand or accept it, you go from there.

I feel you guys 100% my boyfriend just got home from work an hr ago and then got dress and left saying he was just going to go to pick up weed. He did this idk how many times and he won't come back til like 4am or even later then he ask why I'm mad.

Right

@embracemthrhd2, See that's the thing my bf wouldn't get mad idk whether he's trynna do that to trick me so he can be like "I don't get mad when you come in late don't get mad if I come in late." You get what I'm saying, I think that's why he doesn't get mad so he can get a pass himself.

@momtobetobabyc, he replies to my messages. But you're right everyone has a charger. & this mother fucker has 2 one is here & idk if the other one is in his car or his work truck either way he has too much access to let it get this way for so long for God sake we have a son he's not even thinking bout him. & trust me I will it's bout to be 2:30 & he's still not here. I just feel so mad & a full that I allow him to treat me this way cause ultimately he's only doing it cause I'm allowing it in some way!

I understand girl. I've been there before. The crazy thing is that it's 2017. Everyone has a phone charger or something. He can reply if he wanted to. Let him have it. Sometimes they needed to be treated like children

My guy is always out late... but let me be late coming home from work... yeah starting to strp out of denial about my relationship 🤔

@momtobetobabyc, dumb & he could be drunk! But he sees he's not doing anything wrong! If you're functional to drive you're functional to ask someone to use there phone so you could call or text me or let them do it. The simple fact he doesn't make an effort to even get in contact with me makes it looks suspicious it's like he doesn't want to. The fact that I can't reach him is making me mad but I wouldn't be so mad if after a while he think like my phone been dead too long I'm not gon get anywhere near a charger anytime soon let me call her let her know I'm cool & im not doing anything wrong cause I know how much she hates it. & it's not like he doesn't know I don't like this he knows! So he gon hear an ear full tonight idc! I be trynna be calm but I can't!

Men are dumb. They do things without thinking and then wonder why we're upset. But I don't blame you. You gotta handle your business especially if this isn't the first time

@momtobetobabyc, girl yes & we were textin too but that's where men mess up at & is so dumb even you was trynna cut your phone off least you could do was say oh my phone dying but he too dumb as a doorknob for that. Bets believe soon as he get in here I'm asking a lot of questions the neighborhoods gon get woken up tonight!

Girl it's hitting mine now cause it just keeps happening! He doesn't get mad when I go out tho. But shit I do idc! Cause of reasons like this can't come in at a descent time!

Ooh then yep. I'd be mad. If his phone is off or dead, then he needs to shoot a text before it dies telling me it is. Also, why isn't his car parked there? I'd be asking lots of questions.

@momtobetobabyc, sorry I meant to tag you.

@haleybae, yes it sure isn't! Like what is out there that late besides something you shouldn't be doing!

Btw his car was not parked outside where he was. Idk if he could've been dropping his people off home I just don't trust it

Welp, sorry to say I know where he was he goes there every Thursday which I don't have a problem with him going out. But he's been gone I said before 8:30pm. His phone is apparently dead or off & this has been happening a lot lately since he's been going out & has his own car. He's doesn't go out all the time I just find it suspicious cause it's repetitive.

Depends on where he was and how often