I need some advice here please!!! I share custody of my daughter with her biological dad. It's a…
I need some advice here please!!! I share custody of my daughter with her biological dad. It's a verbal agreement. We never went to court or dealt with DHS or any of that stuff. She is 9 almost 10 months old. And I am married to another man, and when I was with this guy I made sure that my daughters biological father knew who he was and that he was in our life. Well now the biological dad is married to another woman, whom I have never met... I had no idea he was dating or engaged to this women. But now they are married, which I believe means they are also living together. So that means on the weeks he has our daughter she is also there.. is it wrong that I am uncomfortable with my daughter going over there now with his new wife there. Am I allowed to stop letting him see her as much until I know I am comfortable with my daughter being around this women? Or am I over reacting? I don't have any mom friends cause I am only 20 years old so I have no one to ask. So I am not sure what to do... and I'm terrible at writing things down like this so ask questions if you don't fully understand as I am very good at leaving things out and not realizing it.. Thank you in advance. Picture of my beautiful daughter for attention too
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Мама дочки (1 год)
You have EVERY right to feel uncomfortable and it was messed up he didnt tell you anything or introduce you. I think you should nicely ask him or even invite them both over one night this way its not like youre demanding to meet her. Its good for all parents and stepparents to get along and be on the same terms you never know she might agree and you might really like her!
Lauren🖤·
She's adorable! And I'm honestly not sure since its a verbal agreement but have you talked to your ex about how your feeling about his new wife? Also did you mention to him that you let him know who you were dating and what not?
Lauren🖤·
And you have a right to feel uncomfortable i would too honestly
Bailey Teague·
Мама дочки-младенца
@autumnsmomma125, I literally just found out about the marriage and it happens about a month ago.. I haven't said anything to him yet cause I'm not really sure what to say. I would ask my husband but he is in the Army and is deployed right now so I can't talk to him about it.. so right now I'm looking for advice on how to talk to him about it I guess.
Naomi Israel ·
I think that you should continue to allow him to see your daughter because this is about their relationship.... maybe you can ask him if all yall can get together and meet officially... then you also have to know if he loves his daughter and you know that then you have to trust he will not allow some other woman to bring her harm...
Lauren🖤·
I would invite him to lunch with you and your daughter maybe so y'all can talk alone?
Lacie Marie·
I would tell him that you need to meet his wife.