Found my fiancé on a dating site.... why would someone do this to someone they say they love??? 😞

Got the same problem girl

I've been through the same thing him if you need to talk don't be afraid to message me

I'm sorry :(

❤️❤️ the internet is a scary thing. Please talk to him about what you found, and just like everyone said, we are all here if you need to talk.

Smh that's what scares me bout getting into something serious

Thanks guys. I've tried to talk to him and he denies its him! It's his pictures and information that I know is about him. How could he expect me to believe that someone made it? Idk what to do

U should sign up a dummy account start small talk and see if u can get him to give u his number or email then BAM he's caught and take it from there!

@monica.riversidefamilylaw, I actually tried that and whoever it was said they weren't actually the one in the pics and they were using his pics to catfish people! I have no idea why someone catfishing would actually admit that or how the info was so spot on to him so I think it is. I just wish I could figure out a way to prove it

@taryn.jolly,

Look in his phone but if he's not the one in the so called pics tell him to send u a real pic! He just might send u a pic of his cousin, friend or someone I'm sure u know wouldn't that be some real shit! I caught my man on Snapchat with stupid botches he said is just nothing but he was complimenting them and not complimenting as I was pregnant at the time and well u know when ur pregnant ur insecure, emotional, etc., anyways I confronted him and he was sorry but then after our baby was born same shit so he finally deleted that app (New Years day) after our daughter was 7 months old we were pregnant again and I was stressed and on New Year's Day he was snap chatting some other chick I confronted him in front of my brothers and was so sick to my stomach and unfortunately I had a miscarriage not so long after that!

Needless to say if he were to ever hide his phone or put a passcode on it he's out the door without any exception he already knows I can handle my household all 4 girls without his ass!

Good luck girl I'm here if u need more insight I done heard it all plus I'm a family law paralegal sooooooo I don't trust shit unless I see body language and back up evidence soooo yeah

@monica.riversidefamilylaw, thank you for all that. I actually got logged into his account on another site and have seen tons of messages asking girls for sex, to meet up, all kinds of stuff. I haven't confronted him about it yet. He has done this before but promised he would stop and now I know he hasn't. Messages to way before when I was still pregnant. I'm heartbroken right now and don't know what I'll do. It's 3am here and my daughter and fiancé are both asleep and I'm laying wide awake. I cannot believe how much someone could lie like this. He wants to get married and move away from where we are so he can go active duty and now this?

@taryn.jolly, cut ur ties!! I just packed all my mans shit up he disappeared for 2 days! We have a 10 month old. Military men are the worst in commitment! Especially when they're deployed! Screenshot away PRINT THEM OUT THEN CONFRONT HIM!!!! I know how u feel trust me!