Does a dad who doesn't do anything for their kid (even when chances have been given) deserve to even be around their…

Nope

In my opinion of course

When my daughter is old enough she can decide if she wants to see daddy but until then I do what I feel is best

Yes. The children suffer ultimately. If he's a bad dad by his actions with them then I'd limit time

Check out my last post @tholliswilliams I believe a dad should have an open door to have a relationship with their children but that doesn't mean you have to stand there holding it open. If you know what I mean

@kambam and @momofdeuce

He pretty much told me he did not care today so I'm annoyed with it today I'm just ready for the bullshit to stop. He only wants to do what he wants to do and then when I tell him that he tells me "it's only your way or the highway" all over me wanting to talk about our kid

@aliakr that's pretty much where I'm at

Let him come to you at this point. If he decides to be involved id let him. But pushing him into it is useless. Esp if hes gonna have a bad attitude around y'all! Good luck

It's okay. I've kept the door open for him since the day she was born. He never came to see her or anything he still hasn't met her because he's to busy with his own thing, so I'm over it . I'm done waiting @tholliswilliams,

Guys mature later than women . You're priorities aren't his . Yes it's Ideal to want the man that help create the child you now love so much to be a great father. But sadly that's not the reality of for most . I know its not easy taking advice from women you don't know & we don't know you guys history but I urge you to not become hard hearted with him. Give him time to come around forcing him or nagging him only pushes him further away & raises his defense. Don't let his immaturity take away from knowing you're doing your best to try to involve him & you are giving your daughter the opportunity too know get father. I'm sure or I hope he comes around sooner than later it will be his lost in the end.In the meantime accept help from your loved ones & ask for help when you need it