i only want one child, i grew up being an only child.

I feel your frustration except my situation is the opposite. this will be our 7th child. every one keeps saying things like "yall are getting fixed huh?" ... I feel like it's no bodies business. we both work our butts off to provide for our children. we are not on any types of assistance (not that there is anything wrong with that if it's needed) we never ask any one for help.... geez!