He's been saying things like " It's nothing for you and I to work out you've made all your choices I hope you have a good life and I hope your new relationships with the people you live with work out great for you you're going to need support why you had this baby that you and I pretended was my grandchild " " you don't need me in your life " " you hurt me for moving out , I feel like my daughter has died , you never contact me " ( I've only been moved out for 3 days )