I hate when my SO shuts his eyes and five minutes later he's knocked out.. but when I shut my eyes…

I hate when my SO shuts his eyes and five minutes later he's knocked out.. but when I shut my eyes I'm either daydreaming, overthinking, opening and closing my eyes a thousand more times, tossing and turning, planning what imma do this week, etc. I've always took maybe two hours to fall asleep but especially being a mommy now it's even harder cause every lil noise has me alert. I'm just so tired! 😐😴 and don't even tell me to nap when baby does! Who else is gunna clean and cook and like I said I literally take two hours to fall asleep so by the time I do the baby is up.