I'm really confused right now and don't know what to do. I'm trying really hard to hold my family…

I'm really confused right now and don't know what to do. I'm trying really hard to hold my family together. I honestly think I'm starting to hate my husband and I know it's horrible to say that 😔 I've tried talking to him over and over and I just don't know what else to do. I'm physically & emotionally drained.. from taking care of the twins & trying to make this marriage work.. he goes to work most of the day so I'm the one who mostly takes care of the girls all by myself. I've had no help what so ever since day 1. I do not make him wake up with the girls any later than midnight due to him having to work in the morning. I do the cleaning, make sure his laundry is clean AND put away for him, make sure he has dinner on the table, take care of 2 cats & a dog, PLUS take care of the twins. The girls are a job in itself. All I ask is that when he gets home HE HELPS ME! He doesn't even do that without getting pissed off. He has 0 patience with the girls at all when they're crying. Apparently he doesn't understand that babies take work. (Which he should since he has a daughter in a previous marriage). I talk to him all the time about how stressed out I am, and how exhausted. He doesn't seem to care. I feel like a single parent 😔😔 I don't see why when he gets off work, he can't take care of them until midnight. I do it ALL day every day ugh.