Well he finally decided to come home about 4am.... drunk. I kept my cool this time, didn't want a…
Well he finally decided to come home about 4am.... drunk. I kept my cool this time, didn't want a repeat of last time. He came to the room and just fell on me but in the bed, anyway he was trying to cuddle, and told me to scoot over and I was polite and said no, you can go around to your side of the bed and I'll go to the living room, that went on for a little bit until he finally got it and said well fuck you! My girls begin to get up at 445am, but they know their dad sleeps in the living room so they get ready quietly. Fast forward to just a few minutes ago... he comes in the room to get his clothes and takes a shower, then says good morning, I reply, says hows the baby? I reply with good I guess... he asks is he kicking?.. yes why don't you tell me things like that about the baby?... I just ignored that ( I literally just told him 2 days ago how much more active my little shrimp had become) Lastly was, have a good day. May seem stupid but not giving in to exploding took so much strength, I usually just react, so I feel very empowered and mature this morning🤗 he did this type of shit throughout my first pregnancy when I was 20... had to remind myself last night that I'm not that girl anymore... sorry so long AGAIN😘
Dee E·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@lola-tx you are a strong woman indeed. I don't know what I would do if my honey came home at 4a.m. Are you ok?
babygirl1·
Oh wow I would def. be upset but I would have probably handled it the same as you not argue but not speak to him either good job girly!!
Delores Monter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@dee_02dee, last time this happened I did react and things just escalated out of control... I'm stubborn and usually I don't care at what costs I will make my point, but I'm starting to understand that being that way isn't the way to act, let him have that on his conscience, I'm at piece with mine. We haven't been on good terms in awhile, I'm sure he did this in hopes of me getting pissed. Not this time! Anyway yes I'm ok, he's gone to work I'm just sleepy but I'll take a nap later after I eat. Lol! Thanks girlie 😘
Delores Monter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@babyabilene, girl, this is a long time coming... it's taken too many years to learn how to control myself when angry, but I guess it's because I'm still in a numb state... I need to hold on to this new found strength, it's all so new to me. Thanks mama!