Hey mamas! Serious question. Have any of you ever kinda lost your "spark" with your SO? Especially…

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Plan and force date night. With three kids under 5 we MAKE it happen. We have to stay home mostly because we have no real help from family except on the occasions like a birthday here and there. Dress up, make yourself feel pretty, plan a good meal (take out is easy) and play cards. Seriously, do not turn that tv on and no checking phones. Play a fun board game or card game to get your flirty, fun and competitive side going.

We do this once a week and look forward to it.

😊don't take a break hun, work through it and it will be worth it!

I've lost it I'm never in the mood for anything. Every once in a while I will be but he's usually working or at the gym. We don't really get to do date night cuz the

Only ppl who can watch LO are his parents and they'll say "not to late" we've only been intimate maybe 4 times since LO arrived :/ but I'm also breastfeeding so I know that has a lot to do with it and I don't like post baby body but don't have time to workout. I work 11 hr days 4 days a week. Half the time he works opposite my schedule. We do find time here and there but not as often as I'd like :/

My husband and I did, not sure if its coming back.. and actually, I think I'm too tired to care?? 🤔🤔...and to add to it, we're fairly new to marriage, only been married for months, but I think its over.. sometimes, there is no fixing it- (really not trying to be negative, just stating facts to answer the question she asked everyone 🤗)

Yes. You get busy with babies and forget your married. Make sure you still "date" your SO. I've been leaving little notes in my husbands work case. Have sex. Date. Flirt with each other even if you don't feel like it. It's like dishes, you didn't want to do them but you're sure glad you did when it's done. ☺️

For like years I lost it, since my first was born but I'm finally getting it back. Telling my husband what I need and working on myself have helped...I've been working on my mentality.

I would have sex with him just to keep him happy like once a month, so he wasn't very happy. In fact he recently accused me of cheating, or thinking of cheating because I don't like him because we barely have sex.