So these are is exs plus me (his dad has these pictures😒on his Facebook) he look so much happier…

My husband doesn't like taking pictures either he never smiles in pictures (that's just how he is the only time I ever seen him actually have a real smile in a picture is on our wedding day)

Tell him how you feel and talk to him Im sure he's happier with you then he was with anyone else

I've tried he makes up excuses @amberjacq,

Sometimes people change not every relationship is the same like he might have done things with exes that he doesn't do with you every relationship is different and every love is different

Well I get treated like crap most of the time. Never tells me he loves me unless I say it or kisses me or hugs me or does anything with me. All he does is sleep eat and watch his shows on his phone. With them he went out and did things. I get ignored all of the time @amberjacq,

I know how you feel my husband and I never get alone time to ourselves there is always someone else around and we don't even have children yet (we only have two angel babies) and he never wants to spend time alone with me he always wants someone else there for some reason and it gets on my nerves.. But he really shouldn't ignore you maybe he is stressed or depressed or something

Is he depressed?

I see he looks clean cut in the older pictures but shaggy in the last one. Like he stopped caring as much about himself? I know it feels like you are the problem but I would bet it's his issues.

@amberjacq, when I met my husband he would always bring his family on dates, it was so weird to me. It's like a defense mechanism or a safety net or something, I could never figure it out.

@lindseebee When we were dating he never had anyone along with us it was always just me and him and then when we first got married we would have dates alone and then it turned into double dates with our friends and then it turned into my brother inlaw (who is 15) coming along and then one of our friends would come along and be a 3rd wheel and we never do anything alone on the one day that he is off work because he works Sunday - Friday on nights and then during the day he sleeps so we don't really get any REAL alone time (like with the both of us awake at the same time and actually talking and spending time together) and we don't do much because he is ALWAYS working or asleep like right now he's asleep and then soon he has to get up and get ready for work, this isn't REAL time together, I mean I know he loves me and I know he tries to spend time with me but he also wants to spend time with his family and friends at the same time and he only gets one day off and he thinks its okay to pack all of that together in one day.

@amberjacq, try getting him to give you one day a month just the two of you and tell him the rest can be spent with family and friends.

If anything we spend too much time together, he's a disabled vet and I don't work outside the home.

@juliam27 .your beautiful inside and out im sure...Your man sounds insecure...love yourself no matter what size you are.I am talking from exp had my 1st son at age 16 and i just turned 38...sorry but.your man look s very dif on his pic with u...

@juliam27 .make yourself happy.happiness comes within& ps...relationships with living together.raising kids.paying bills are way dif than taking a chic out to eat once in a blue moon..this isn't playtime its life..make him change or change your life for better