Thank you. It's not that they are accidents because I wouldn't get mad at that right now it's like he flat out refuses to go the bathroom as a whole . I let him tell me when he wanted to start and he did good for a week and then I worked like 40 hrs the next week so he went to his abuelas house and each day he would come home refusing because she won't take him to bathroom she said oh he is scared and won't use our bathroom. It's been four months now and every morning he says I don't want to use the toilet Mom it's like a game and he does that with everything he looks at me and does something wrong and says no get in trouble Mom so I feel horrible but I also don't want him running around being a brat either so I'm so torn between what I should do to help him see right from wrong. I've tried a lot of ways and he literally makes me raise my voice or he won't budge, I just don't like that way of parenting so it's killing me inside

Its really hard to potty train boys. Girls are easier. I have 3 girls and they were so easy. Even now my 1 year old daughter goes potty on the potty chair and she likes it. She even tells me when she goes poop in her diaper.

Breathe honey breathe. Dance it out with music. My son is 3 and im still going through that. I put underwear on him during the day and i use to get upset with him when he would have an accident and ive learned that i shouldn't of done that because it scared him and now when he has accidents he say sorry mommy im sorry because he thinks im going to get upset but i just tell him now that its ok to have an accident and that im not upset. At night i put pull ups on him

I'm using pull ups because we tried underwear and he would just pee and not even care and I would look over and he is all wet. It's just so much though he doesn't listen to anything I say , he repeats everything multiple times, gets an attitude and talks back and I don't get why. I am the same with his 2 yr old brother and he doesn't act like that . Plus my youngest is sick and I think I'm getting it but it feels like we have these days way too often😩

I'm going through the same thing with my daughter right now. The only way I can get her to to actually use the potty some days ( not all though) is to let her pick her own undies for the day. If she picks a pair she wants to wear then she tries to actually use the potty. If I pick them and she doesn't care for then she refuses to use the potty. This is the only method that seems to work for her.