So has anyone dealt with there SO completely detaching from baby while baby is sick my baby has an…

So has anyone dealt with there SO completely detaching from baby while baby is sick my baby has an ear infection and it seems daddy wants nothing to do with him now and he says it's bc all he does is cry I'm getting very frustrated bc baby has been up crying all night for three nights and is super cranky during the day am I wrong to want a little break?