My bf and I just very recently got engaged. We plan in getting married sometime in the next 3 months. We decided not to tell our family right now. His family loves me and would be happy for us but my family hates him and would be mad at me for accepting. My family has never really cared about my happiness when it comes to my own relationships as long as they are happy. I have really been debating whether to even let my family know that we plan on getting married or not even saying anything to them until after we are actually married. I think my mom would be the only one upset that she missed my wedding even with how much she doesn't like my bf.