@dee_02dee lol you got that right

@momi2b4 men most definitely have a different perspective on things than we do. We have our maternal instincts and them....they just always think they are right smh. Trust your instincts.

Thank you @dee_02dee I'm trying to make him understand but since he works all day he doesn't see how he is

@momi2b4 it is very hard when you and you significant other don't see eye to eye when it comes to parenting. Maybe if you talked it over with him if you haven't already and even researching before may help so you can explain yourself on why so he understands that it is for the best.

Yup let him cry he will be okay

@dee_02dee my husband makes Me feel like a bad mom. That I shouldn't let him cry. I've done that a few times. Let him cry but it just makes me more upset that he's being like that.

@momi2b4 I personally believe it is healthy to leave them crying for a little bit. I did it with my oldest son. My mom hated it but after a while he was fine and didn't cry as much. You don't want baby to be so dependent on you because it will only be worse when they start daycare or school. If the baby is clean and fed he will be just fine while momma takes a shower or does the dishes Jr anything else for the time being. Don't feel like a terrible mom either for it.